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🎭 Name your feelings

🟢 Evidence-based

Putting a feeling into words helps us understand it and choose what to do. Every feeling is allowed; what matters is how we respond.

A person with a confused face surrounded by question marks.???

A person with glowing spots on the chest and stomach.Tight?Heavy?
1Pause and notice your body
Stop for a moment. Where do you feel something: a tight chest, a hot face, a heavy stomach?
Feeling word cards: sad, angry, worried, calm.SadAngryWorriedHurtCalmWhich one fits?
2Find a word
Pick the closest word: sad, angry, worried, hurt, lonely, excited, calm. Two words can be true at once.
A strength meter showing 6 out of 10.6 / 10
3Rate how strong it is
From 1 (very mild) to 10 (very strong). This helps you see if it is growing or settling.
A person thinking, with a thought cloud asking 'What do I need?'.What do I need?
4Ask what you need
Feelings carry messages. Do you need rest, help, a break, comfort, or to speak up?
A person walking towards a cup of water and a friend.
5Choose one small step
Drink water, take a walk, talk to someone, or write it down. Small steps count.

Real-life example

Arjun snaps at his sister. He pauses: his jaw is tight. The word is 'frustrated', about a 7. He needs a short break, so he says, 'I need ten minutes, then let's talk.'

A common mistake

Thinking some feelings are 'bad' and must be hidden. Feelings are signals, not faults. Hurting yourself or others is what needs to be avoided, not the feeling.

Try the activity

Explore the feelings wheel and pick the word that fits you right now.

Open the feelings wheel

Quick recap

  1. Notice the body
  2. Name it and rate it
  3. Ask what you need, take one step

▶️ Tool 1: Naming, noticing and refocusing

WHO South-East Asia Region (WHO SEARO) · 3:05 min

Part of WHO South-East Asia's 'Managing Stress Better' series, based on WHO's illustrated guide 'Doing What Matters in Times of Stress'.

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